The loss of a loved one can take its toll on you both physically and mentally. You may experience a rollercoaster of emotions. One moment may find you incapacitated by grief, whereas in the next you may feel almost normal. Anger, fear, guilt, and panic are just a few of the emotions you may experience. This is completely normal.
The physical effects of grief can include sleeplessness, excessive fatigue, headaches, general malaise, intestinal upsets, and dizziness. During periods of extreme stress such as grief, it is crucial that you try to eat regularly and to rest, since stress can suppress your immune system, making you more prone to illness.
Your grief reaction and subsequent recovery can depend on the quality of your relationship to the deceased, your capacity to handle stress, and the type of support network that you have. If your relationship was strained or you have never experienced the loss of a loved one, your grief may be overwhelming.
Do not be afraid to seek the support of friends and family. They will want to help but might not be sure how. All too often, those who are grieving keep their feelings to themselves and feel that others will be able to anticipate their needs. As difficult as it may seem, it may be necessary for you to take the initiative.
Talk to your local funeral director. Funeral directors are listeners, advisors, and supporters. They assist those who are grieving every day. Many funeral homes offer aftercare programs, which are programs designed to help you through the initial stages of grief.
Your funeral director can also recommend local support groups and reading materials that can help you understand and cope with your grief. Even if you weren't directly involved with the funeral arrangements, you can contact your local funeral home. Family funeral homes are committed to the communities they serve and willingly help those in need.
Local Grief Support Organizations
Valley Hospice Bereavement Support Livelines
Offered Spring & Fall of each year, once a week for six consecutive weeks
Contact: Valley Hospice
Telephone: 304-242-1977 | |
Survivors of Suicide
Time: 7:30p.m.
Date: 2nd Thursday of each month
Place: Northwood Health Systems
Contact: Emma Wilkins
Telephone: 304-277-3738 |
Share of Upper Ohio Valley Pregnancy & Infant Loss
Time: 7:00 - 9:00 p.m.
Date: 1st & 3rd Monday each month
Place: Wheeling Jesuit College Chapel
Seminar Room
Contact: Evelyn Long
Telephone: 304-242-1916 | |
Wheeling Hospital Bereavement Support Group
(Five week sessions that are offered at various times throughout the year)
Time: 10:30 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.
Place: Howard Long Wellness Center
Contact: Lynn Hetzell
Telephone: 304-243-3738 |
Compassionate Friends Support Group for Parents of Deceased Children
Time: 1:30 - 4:30 p.m. 4th Sunday of ea. Month
Place: St. Margaret's Catholic Church
Greentree , PA (in school cafeteria)
Contact: Maureen Welch
Telephone: 412-835-1105 | |
St. Michael's Support Group
Time: 7:00 p.m.
Date: 1st & 3rd Monday of month
Place: St. Michael's Rectory
1225 National Road , Wheeling , WV
Contact: Fred Fise
Telephone: 304-233-8571 |
Evergreen Support Group
Contact: Darla Matheny
Telephone: 304-845-2445 | |
Trinity Medical Center West
Grief Support Group
2nd & 4th Tuesdays, 6:30-7:30 PM
Also 6 week sessions throughout the year.
Call Sr. Maria Consuelo, Pastoral Care Coordinator at 740-283-7749 or 740-264-8130 |
Florists
Bodnar & Son Florist & Greenhouse
Rayland, OH
740-859-2151 | |
Laupp Florist
Wheeling , WV
304-232-4750 |
Jack's Floral, Gift & Garden
St. Clairsville , OH
740-695-1223 | |
Martins Ferry Flower Shop
Martins Ferry, OH
740-635-2051 |
Ponzani Florist
St. Clairsville, OH
740-695-2204 | |
Rhodes Florist
Bridgeport , OH
740-635-0512 |
Bud's Bloomers Flower Shop
St. Clairsvile , OH
740-695-0163 | |
Wheeling Flower Shop
Wheeling , WV
304-233-3320
800-528-5177
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Novak's Gardenscapes
Wintersville, OH
740-266-9105 | |
Murphy's Florist
Mingo Junction, OH
740-535-1586 |
Hotels
Days Inn-West
52601 Holiday Drive
St. Clairsville , OH 43950
740-695-0100 | |
Country Inn & Suites of St. Clairsville
67731 Mall Road
St. Clairsville , OH 43950
740-695-4980 |
Hampton Inn
795 National Road
Wheeling , WV 26003
740-233-0440
800-426-7866 | |
Hampton Inn
51130 National Road
St. Clairsville , OH 43950
740-695-3961
800-426-7866 |
Econo Lodge
51659 National Road
St. Clairsville , OH 43950
740-695-0887 | |
Holiday Inn Express
51654 National Road
St. Clairsville , OH 43950
740-695-0010 |
Red Roof Inn
Mall Road
St. Clairsville , OH 43950
740-695-4057 | |
Ramada Plaza City Center Hotel
1200 Market Street
Wheeling , WV 26003
304-232-0300 |
Best Western Wheeling Inn
10th and Main Street
Wheeling , WV 26003
304-233-8500 | |
Super 8 Motel
68400 Matthews Drive
St. Clairsville , OH 43950
740-695-1994 |
Holiday Inn Att Weirton
350 Three Springs Drive
Weirton , WV
304-723-5522 | |
Holiday Inn-Steubenville
1401 University Blvd
Steubenville , OH
740-282-0901 |